ABA Butterfly
Assent-based & ACT-informed parent coaching

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Tools in your pocket.

Feel more equipped to understand your child’s needs, support their communication and navigate everyday moments—with practical tools and coaching built around your family.

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A 15-minute conversation to explore your needs and whether we’re a good fit

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Your family, your starting point

Support that fits everyday life

Communication

Make room for asking, choosing, requesting help and saying “stop.”

Everyday routines

Explore manageable ways to support transitions, play and shared activities.

Parent confidence

Practise strategies together and adjust them to what works for your family.

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Connection, choice and what matters

Assent-based support makes room for your child’s willingness, choices and communication. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)-informed tools help parents notice difficult thoughts and feelings, reconnect with their values and choose manageable next steps. Together, we focus on skills that matter to your child and your family.

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The resource library

Explore every way to grow

Understand each domain and find its skill pages.

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Parents as communicators, teachers and guides →

A little support to get started

Free tools for everyday moments

Print at 100% on letter-size paper. First–Then boards are portrait; token boards are landscape. Personalise together with pictures, drawings or written words. No membership or email required.

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First - Then Board

Two blank First–Then boards on one portrait page, with centred headings, arrows and instructions underneath.

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5-Token Board

Page 1: 5-token board and reinforcer-picture box. Page 2: instructions and five optional butterfly tokens.

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10-Token Board

Page 1: 10-token board and reinforcer-picture box. Page 2: ten cut-out butterfly tokens and brief guidance.

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Use flexibly with your child’s communication and choices. Each board includes brief guidance.